Hello Clayton, I'm not sure if you know who I am, but I was Isabel's "boyfriend" for a couple of months while she was with you. Clayton, your girlfriend(if you are still together) is cheating on you again. She's already back to her old antics just 2 weeks after everything happened. I found out because she popped up on my feed in the exact same communities where I found her the first time, just using a new account. This time, going by a name of Emma. I immediately recognized her face. Here is the proof: https://pixi.mg/g/e8b97b5334cecf73 You can see her new account (justababydolly) with hidden and deleted posts here: https://arctic-shift.photon-reddit.com/search?fun=posts_search&author=justababydolly&limit=100&sort=desc You can click on any of the posts to directly access her Reddit account. As you can see, today she posted that she's looking for people again, she's posting pictures of herself again, and even admits that she's been doing this for a year now, looking for love and attention on FIVE different reddit accounts. I even didn't know this. That is crazy. Her post got deleted thankfully because her account is new, but as you can see, she's already asking for ways to get karma on her new account in order to probably continue looking for people. I'm going to provide some additional context to you now. This is the account that I met her on: https://arctic-shift.photon-reddit.com/search?fun=posts_search&author=isababydolly&limit=100&sort=desc Hopefully now you're able to understand how serious this is. She has been doing this for months, multiple times a month. This website holds data all the way back to May 2025, but there's no doubt in my mind that she's been doing this before that as well. She even publicly posted pictures of herself here. The amount of men that she has interacted with during this time is probably in the thousands. Trust me, as a girl on Reddit, you get a LOT of dms. A vast majority of these men are predatory and dangerous too. She wanted to find something LONG TERM. This wasn't just a silly little thing for her. She admitted to having multiple long term affairs and dynamics with other older men before she met me. And who knows how many men she casually interacted with, sending nudes for attention and validation. Truth is Clayton, I'm not sure if she was ever truly your girl(nor was she mine, don't get me wrong), as she was doing this for the majority of your relationship, maybe even before it even began. She only stopped doing this once she met me (day after her last post). I guess she finally found what she was looking for. Now, I don't know what she told you about me(if she even did), but her and I spent every single day together for multiple hours a day calling and video calling, as well as texting throughout the day. I'm not sure how you never noticed that something was off given how much time she would spend with me. There was only one period of time, a few days after she got sexually assaulted, that we didn't talk. She was overwhelmed and had a perfect opportunity to cut contact. She knew this and she even thought about it. I would've never questioned anything if she did it. But ultimately, it was too good for her to stop it. But there was also one period of about 3 weeks, where I think you went on a trip, and she spent her entire days with me on a call. We'd talk literally everywhere she went if we could. I wasn't just a hot older guy to her that she liked receiving attention from. She was REALLY into me. You have no idea about the things that she did for me. We talked about living together, and having a house together, and the things that we would do in that house.. We fantasized about meeting up and all the things that we were looking forward to doing once we met up, and all the places we would visit. She let me in her personal life completely, showed me her family and even some of her friends. She was emotionally vulnerable with me, and told me some of her deepest and most embarrassing secrets and traumas, secrets that even you don't know about. Whenever she had problems and needed comforting, she'd come and cry to me. She was really afraid of making me upset. She'd always cry and beg me not to leave her, even over the small things. Whenever I wouldn't text her, she'd get really sad. She would never go to sleep before calling me and talking to me, no matter what happened. We used a few long distance couples apps and did a bunch of random stuff there too. Outside of our relationship, we had an entire BDSM dynamic together. We used this app called "Obedience", where I gave her tasks to do for me every single day, and then I'd reward her or punish her based on how well she did. She liked the idea of parading around the fact that I own her and me controlling her. I don't think there's a more meaningful way to cheat than to parade around the fact that you're literally OWNED by another man. I'd pick out clothes for her to wear and she'd do or avoid doing things I told her to do or not do. Both in real life and online. So she wanted us to join communities online as a couple, so she could talk about me and show off the fact that I'm her daddy. So we did that too. She would wear my initials on different parts of her body and take pictures with it. She was the one to turn our dynamic sexual really quickly. We were intimate too, A LOT. She would sometimes surprise me and take multiple hours of her day and pick out costumes that she knew I would like and then she'd do entire photoshoots in them. A bunch of different positions, perspectives, photos and videos. Keep in mind, I never asked her to do this for me. In fact, I never asked for anything ever. She liked making me feel good so she'd go out of her way herself to surprise me. She even went as far as to order a bunch of sex toys for her to use, one of which I could control remotely over my phone using an app called "LoveSpouse". We spent 7 hours doing shit non stop that first night. She even learned Serbian dirty talk to use it on me. Even got herself a bunch of BDSM accessories that she wanted to wear for me and wanted me to use on her. I regret doing any of these things with her. I feel disgusting and stupid and I'm sorry. Hadn't I found out that you, most likely Clayton, she would've left you for me in a near future. Thank God it didn't get that far. Here are some screenshots that you should also take a look at. These are just a couple of screenshots that I managed to take after I confronted her and she deleted all of our texts. I should have saved more before I confronted her but I was freaking out. https://i.pixi.mg/i/2f0338bdfe7929e04e53e0ee.jpg And this is her parading around the fact that she's owned by me: https://i.pixi.mg/i/d68bdb04f3e7c0dc826d2b56.jpg First of all, she tried her hardest to keep you away from finding out about us. She didn't want you to know at any cost. She begged me repeatedly, and even tried to scare me off. At one point, she even tried to bargain with me in order for me not to tell you. She had no problems keeping this behind your back and keeping this "affair" going. As a guy, there's no way that I would've agreed to that. Instead, I forced her hand, and I forced her to come clean with EVERYTHING, or else I would've done it. I thought that it should come from her. You have to understand that the only reason that you know about any of this, is because I forced her to tell you. She would've never done it herself. But clearly you don't even know a half of the story. Then, as you can see, she even admitted that she was going to break up with you soon. Conveniently, just before we were supposed to meet. Keep in mind, she still wanted to meet me, even after I confronted her about you. My guess is, you needed to be completely out of the picture for long enough before I met up with her so that I didn't find out about her lying to me. And you Clayton, I don't know how you treat her, but to me, you were deacribed as an abusive crazy ex by her. She told me that you'd manipulate her, neglect her, she made fun of your penis size, she said that you play with her feelings and that you just used her for sex. Even said that you borderline raped her one time and that she should've left you long before she actually did. When I threathened to tell you about us, she tried to convince me by saying that I can't because "I don't know you" and that you'd kill her and then you'd track me down and kill me too. That you'd expose her to everyone and that you'd post her nudes online everywhere. Even when I mentioned that that would be pretty stupid as you'd get into a lot of trouble, she said that you're the type of guy not to care about that and that you'd only wish to hurt her. The worst thing about this, she went out of her way to shit talk you. I have a past relationship that I'm not too proud of, so I tried to avoid us talking about our exes as much as possible, but she still had to vent about it. Even if that was a lie or some sort of a sick joke, it's still pretty fucked up to describe your current boyfriend like that. Ultimately, when I asked her what she would do if I kept our "affair" to ourselves and never told you about it, did she really think that she could build a long lasting relationship after all this, she simply responded that "She just can't be alone right now" and that "She was scared of you exposing her because you have a lot of mutual friends". That doesn't really sound like she truly cares about you, if everything mentioned above wasn't enough to convince you. I'm not saying that she doesn't care about you at all, because I genuinely think she does, just not enough, and not in the way that you deserve to be cared for when you're in a relationship with someone. This is her FetLife account. FetLife is dating app for people into kink. The account is still active if you want to search it up on the platform: https://i.pixi.mg/i/46c45057a87a25d4d1c78c7e.jpg She had long term dynamics with people from here as well. There was this one weird guy who was into diaper stuff(you can see his profile in her friends list) and she told me that she'd wear diapers for him and soil them and play with herself fully naked on a live video call while he would watch. That's extremely deprived, and she had no business doing anything like that. This was also during your guy's one year anniversary, if you check the date when they became friends on the app. She also found a LOCAL Dominican BDSM community here that she also lied her way into. SHE MET WITH A 26 YEAR OLD GIRL FROM THIS COMMUNITY IN REAL LIFE. This was incredibly incredibly dangerous. She admitted that if Reddit didn't work out, that's where she planned on continuing her search for "love". But it doesn't end here either, she also admitted that she used dating apps to find people, that she snapped with some older men that she met who knows where. And that's just from what I know. You also got cheated on in real life as well. She said that made out with an older Ukrainian guy that is one of her dad's business partner's son. She said that she was into him for years and that he was on her "bucket list". Also, there was a older girl that she made out with in a club one night when she was out. Besides that, she told me how she would flirt with a bunch of guys that she would meet whenever she would go out with her friends and she would lead them on before leaving them, just because she liked the attention. To her, it was a game sometimes. Also, just ask her about her self proclaimed "whore phase" that she went through after she "broke up" with you. She said that she did all of these things after breaking up with you. But clearly that never happened. And this is just what she told me about. I know this is a lot to take in. And I know that these things are very hurtful. But I thought you should know. I know I would want to anyways. I wanted to let it go, but after I saw that she started cheating on you again this quickly, I had to let you know. I felt bad. I don't know if you're still with her, maybe you guys broke up. In that case, this can serve as some sort of validation. If you're still together, my advice is to leave. Don't be a doormat, Clayton. You know that you'd advise any of your friends the same thing if they were in a same situation. Isabel is a serial cheater with serious mental health issues. Even if you forgive this, you will never forget it. You can't trust her. And you're too young to develop trust issues. You deserve better. Should you decide to stay, mark my words, this won't end good for you. I know I don't have evidence for all of these claims, for a lot of it, she'd tell me about them during our calls, and for some, it's just simply isn't right for me to show you, and I don't think that you need to see that either. But I really have no reason to lie to you or make stuff up. Besides, be my guest and confront Isabel about any of this. Just tell her that you got proof beforehand, or she will attempt to deny it. Ultimately, it's up to you to choose what to believe in. I think I provided more than enough proof that Isabel isn't really who you think she is. In any way, I wish you luck Clayton. And I'm sorry for everything.